As an older YSA sister, I find that the people I go to advice for treat me as though I'm 19 and unmarried and assume that my life situation is just like theirs used to be for the 14 months they weren't married between age 17.5 and 19 at BYU. I need a good place to get advice and guidance from that takes in my particular and specific situation. I know the Lord loves me and I seek to be guided by the spirit. It would be nice to have another human being to talk to, someone with specific understandings and one who has weathered this successfully.